Ifechi Japhet NwaorisaAuthor. Advocate. Owerri to England. Support line
Memoir

God Bless Gay People

Challenges of Being Gay in Nigeria

A short memoir about faith, family and a prayer I could only say in secret.

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  • 130 pages
  • Published 14 October 2025
God Bless Gay People – Ifechi Japhet Nwaorisa

Throughout every day, I whisper my secret prayer: God bless gay people.

From the Amazon listing

Every Sunday I sat in church in Owerri and sang the hymns. To my family I was the good Christian son. Inside, I was praying a prayer nobody around me would have allowed: God bless gay people.

This book is about the years of hiding, about sermons that called me an abomination, about watching friends fall in love while I stayed alone, and about what happens to a person in a country where three honest words can cost him fourteen years in prison, his family and his home.

It is the shortest of my books and the one closest to my heart. If you only ever read one thing I have written, read this.

Ifechi Nwaorisa in a white vest, eyes wet with tears, looking into the camera

Who this book is for

For every gay Nigerian who has ever prayed to be changed, for every parent who has ever slammed a door, and for every pastor who has never asked what his words do to the boy in the third pew.

Content note. Family rejection, religious abuse and violence are described.

Where the money goes

Money from the books pays for the support line: airtime for the volunteers, and small emergency payments to LGBT+ Nigerians who need a night somewhere safe, a bus fare out of a dangerous town, or a clinic visit. If you would rather give directly, use the Buy Me a Coffee page.

Every copy keeps a phone switched on.

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